yentische:

like here’s my hot bisexual take or whatever, but when a woman goes to other women for advice on dealing with their relationship problems with a man……. she should NEVER have to hear “duh he’s a man 🙄🙄🙄” or “are you really surprised” or ESPECIALLY “it’s on you for even dating him”.

i see this so often- especially on this stupid website. and i’m not gonna call out one group of people who do this either, because i’ve seen lesbians AND bi women tear other women down like this.

yeah, i get it. men are the worst. men are awful. men don’t care about women. but when a woman asks for advice on what to do in her situation, the last thing she needs is to be met with this dismissive behavior. HELP HER, let her know how to get out of a toxic relationship or recognize signs of domestic abuse, or at the very least give her some links. but don’t just give her an eyeroll emoji and call her dumb for being in a relationship with a man in the first place. it’s not her fault. stop acting like it is.