having a grown up job is very weird because i’m a youth just out of college used to being surrounded by other youths and now all of a sudden i have coworkers who’ve been married for ages or have kids and then of the group who are closer to my age, one’s pregnant, one’s engaged, everybody lives with a significant other and the hot topic is whether so-and-so’s boyfriend of 7 years is gonna propose while they’re away for new years and all i’m doing in life is arguing with an officer about whether he looks “v young” (he absolutely does, and listing every officer who’s younger than him isn’t going to make him look any older)