trapcard:

I can understand the sentiment of “im going to change a Bad Behaviour because of someone close to me” but that the end of the day you have to do it for you. Not to be a pessimist or w/e but if something goes wrong with that person down the road you lose your only motivation for change and it’s easy to relapse. Like being inspired to change by someone is one day but actually changing should be for you and because it’ll help you grow as a person, not because it’ll make someone love you or s/t along those lines.